Meet the cousins!

I had my first ever "meet the cousins" session.

And it was fun!! :)

I was really looking forward to this coz the bunch of us only meet once a year, during chinese new year, which is really pathetic. But the good thing is when we do meet each other during that period of time, we are not strangers to one another. It is amazing how we can still talk and joke around as if we meet up every other day. Perhaps it is because we only see each other once a year and thats why we tend to cherish that few moments we have with each other.

But now everything will change!!

After today, we decided that we should meet up every now and then and not wait for that particular time of the year to see each other. I was quite surprised at how smooth our conversations went. We chatted about everything under the sun, from the usual opening topic about our school and work to stuff like our own relationships, sex and gay bars!!! Like one of them was saying how her gay friend taught her to tell whether a guy masturbates often, from the colour of his ejaculation. If it is yellow, then he doesn't do it often, but if it is white or transparent, then you will know that he does it frequently. While the rest of us were trying to digest this fact, one other cousin suddenly said this,

"So it is like chao4 sieng1 (stale) issit?!"

WTF?!!!!!!! hahahahah. Stale?!!I almost died of laughter. Not bad eh, for people who only meet up once a year!!! :) My older cousin even said he would bring my brother to a club next time.

I think we took our cousin-cousin relationship up to a higher level when we started talking about our own relationships, especially the more sensitive part of it, like during break-ups. It was really something that I did not expect them to share with us but when they did, I felt that it was the start of a really closer relationship for all of us.